Just wanted to post these teaching outlines from our Pure Sex Series Brenda and did together a while ago – Stuff is too good to stay in a three ring binder.

OOPS…I DATED JECKYLL …BUT MARRIED HYDE
Pastor STEVE and BRENDA LUMMER
pure sex series

Duet. 22:9,10,11 Do not plant two kinds of seed in your vineyard; if you do, not only the crops you plant but also the fruit of the vineyard will be defiled. 10 Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.
11 Do not wear clothes of wool and linen woven together.

1. WHAT GOES WRONG?
Stages of Love:
1.  ATTRACTION
2. INFATUATION
3. ATTACHMENT
Be careful what you get attached to

2. WHAT CHOICE DO I HAVE?
Some go…     Some stay…   Some find another way…

3. CREATING THE RIGHT MARRIAGE

Face your    FAULTS COLLECTIVELY      remember you are on the same TEAM.
“Search me, O God, and know my heart, test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me…” Psalm 139.23-24a
“Admit your faults to one another and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” James, 5.16

Fulfill your   SPOUSES NEEDS     .
“The man should fulfill his duty as a husband and the woman should fulfill her duty as a wife. and each should satisfy the other’s needs.”  1 Corinthians 7.3
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

Be   UNDERSTANDING   , not demanding.
“You husbands should try to understand the wife you live with…”  1 Peter 3.7

Enlist    SUPPORT     from others.
“Get all the advice and instruction you can.”  Proverbs 19.20 (New Living Translation)

Get plugged into a    GOD POWERED   marriage.